I love the sight of women in RHTs and yet my wife thinks they are just to cumbersome to be bothered with them. I have tried the old “they are healthier” bit with no success. Have any of you had this problem and know of ways of convincing her?

I even managed to convince my secretary to wear them and now she does all the time but my wife won’t listen! I wish there was a disaster that would turn women off tights. Like spiders and mice are able to live in there without you knowing! What do you think?

– I think its easier to convince an employee to wear stockings than to convince one’s wife to do almost anything.

You have no positional power over your wife. However, it’s this very positional power that might someday make you the subject of a sexual harassment lawsuit should your secretary ever decide she is unhappy with you or the workload you give her or the days off she gets or a special favour you did not grant or the amount of pay increase she received or… I think you get my point.

As to your wife, how long have you been married? How long have you been trying to convince her? Does your wife know your secretary and if so, does your wife know that she wears stockings? If she does know that does she know you are the person who convinced her to do so?

It’s possible that your wife, knowing that your secretary wears stockings, has decided that the only reason you want her to wear them is so she will be as attractive to you as your secretary. Your wife wants to be thought of as attractive in her own right not attractive because she reminds you of your secretary.

– Give your wife a coupon book as a gift. You make up the coupons. You can find sites on the Internet that will give you suggestions as to what the coupons should say. Use a search engine and enter “love coupons” as the search term. You should get plenty of sites.

For example, some say “I’ll do the dishes”. Some say “Good for a full body massage”. Some say “Good for a romantic dinner”. Some might say “I’ll be your personal love slave”. You get the idea? Tell her that she can use these coupons with you anytime she wants. Make sure you make her coupons good for things you know she enjoys but maybe you have been reluctant to do with her i.e. theatre, shopping, etc. Don’t make them all about sex. But make sure one of the coupons says “I’ll do anything you want. ” Make sure she knows that’s the most important coupon of all.

Then tell her that you would really enjoy having a coupon book that she makes up. That’s when you may hit pay dirt. If you make the book you give her really sensitive to the things you know she likes the chances are very good that she will reciprocate when she makes your book. Try to limit the number of coupons to 10 and put an expiration date of no more than thirty days on it.

Now, if she gives you a coupon that says “I’ll do anything you want” you will of course be ready with stockings and suspenders. But, make sure you make the entire evening very enjoyable. Buy her a nice dress. Take her to dinner. Buy her a corsage. Order a fine wine. Make it a celebration. Rent a hotel room… a good one. Let this be a very memorable event. From that time on she should associate stockings with a wonderful time and you will find it is much easier to get her to wear them Especially when you buy them as presents.

– I haven’t been married for 26 years (five for me), but here is how I got my wife to like 15 denier RHTs:

First, I simply ordered several pairs without her knowing about it, as well as a stong garter belt (with metal clips). Once we got them in the mail, I asked her to just put them on for love-making. She had no problem with that. To make it sexier for me, I would have her put on business suit and everything just so I could take everything off (but the garter and stockings). When she had her business suit on, I truthfully noted how much better the stockings made her legs look than the nylon/spandex/lycra mix in pantyhose. She looked down and noticed the same thing. The stockings are so sheer and sexy, that her legs looked so much better than when in pantyhose.

I ensured her that I couldn’t see the stocking tops when standing or sitting and told her that she should wear them to work. She agreed at that point. Before leaving for work, I told her to put an extra stocking in her purse just in case of a run (and thereby completely turning her off). Therefore, I did several things:

1. Showed her how much better her legs looked in daily clothes of which she agreed.
2. Convinced her that there is no way her work peers could notice that she was wearing stockings (which wouldn’t have bothered me – lol).
3. Ensured she had a garter belt that would securely fasten her stockings, reducing the wrinkling around knees and ankles.
4. Gave her an extra stocking just in case of runs (which she has had to turn to many times).
5. Lastly, when she got home from work, I made love to her like never before… something she definitely values!

Hope this helps!

– Now here’s one more, give your wife freedom of choice, for me that was the clincher. Knowing it was my choice was very important to me. Everyone likes having a choice and no one likes being told what to do. When I am told what to do it instantly gets my defences up. Women want to know their husband or boyfriend loves them for who and what they are not what they wear.