Giving a blow job is harder than it seems, especially when you've been doing it the same way for awhile now. The key to a good sex life is to keep things hot, fresh, and new at all times. You have to spice things up, and believe it or not, a plain blow job comes with a lot of spicing options. If you've got it in your head that you just need to lick and pump, you're making your partner miss out on a lot of oral pleasure. Below are some techniques that may help you improve your oral sex.
You may not realize this, but the more you are aroused, the better blow job you will give. If you aren't in a sexual mindset, your mouth won't work the way it needs to. Try to add some foreplay into your relationship, and watch some pornography together if need be. Make sure you are just as aroused as he is. Then please yourself during the oral sex so you get something out of it too. You may start to moan or even want the dick because you are so turned on, thereby arousing your partner even further.
You can always add an adult novelty to your oral sex as well. A lot of people assume that the mouth is the only tool at work, but you can bring in a massager for his balls, or even a vibrator for yourself (assuming you are a woman). If you are a man giving another man head, you can get some lubricant on your hands and masturbate while you suck. There are also genital napkins out there that you can put over the dick for easy cleanup. These make that area of the body smell a little better, which may make things easier for you in the long run.
You don't have to make a person orgasm the first time. You can actually get him to the point that he is about to explode, and then stop on a dime. Then when you build the pleasure back up again, he will want to explode even more. Some men think this is torture, but others love the tease. You can ad ice cubes into the mix to "cool down" the erection. Feel free to just take control and see how he responds, or let him be in full control of your mouth. Either way, if you think outside the box a bit, you'll surely find an oral sex technique that works well for you.
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