All You Ever Wanted to Know About Pantyhose

May 24, 2010 By admin Leave a Comment

All You Ever Wanted to Know About Pantyhose

Pantyhose were discovered by Allen Gant Senior and its first version appeared in 1959. Pantyhose are a combination of stockings and underpants. Needless to say, pantyhose emphasize the attractiveness of a woman. It makes legs look smooth, silky and extremely sexy. On the more human side, pantyhose make it easier to wear and take off shoes. It lends slenderness and shine to an otherwise blemished skin. During winter, pantyhose provide much needed warmth and coziness. The uniform pressure applied on all parts of the leg enhances blood circulation too.

Nylon is the preferred material used in the making of pantyhose. Importance is given to maintain a high degree of excellence in strength, elasticity and shine while manufacturing pantyhose. Weightlessness is another alluring feature of good pantyhose. And no compromises are made to see that the product is as durable as possible. Nylon is able to provide all these features besides being crease-free. Another material used as an alternative to nylon is spandex.

Denier is the unit with which the thickness of nylon is measured. The sheerness of pantyhose can vary from 3-80 deniers, a higher value denoting a thicker garment. The design of the pantyhose is normally the same with a few variations thrown in for elegance and style. Since most women are conscious of their protruding bellies, a broader elastic band is provided near the waist, in some pantyhose, to disguise this. The crotch is made of cotton to enhance comfort. The heel and toes are doubled in strength to avoid wear and tear and improve durability. Darker shades of pantyhose are normally preferred in winter.

Uses of pantyhose:

The uses of pantyhose are manifold. New pantyhose serve the purpose of giving confidence in the mind of the user. They make the wearer look alluring and seductive. They also provide warmth and comfort. But the utility of old pantyhose can be mind-boggling!

Old pantyhose can be used to clean up a fish-tank or a garden pond. A debris-skimmer can be created by folding a clothes hanger into a circle and covering it with pantyhose. All the debris can then be removed like magic!

Pantyhose are priceless as far as kitchen utility is concerned. They serve as wonderful scrubbers for utensils, especially non-stick ones. Pantyhose can be rolled into a ball to serve as a floor shiner. Wet flour can be prevented from sticking onto a rolling pin by covering it with a tube of pantyhose. A garbage liner can be secured with the help of the elastic band of the pantyhose.

A garden cannot do without pantyhose as well. Ripe onions and potatoes can be stored and tomato vines can be secured with pantyhose. Flower bulbs can be stored in the same way. Pots can be lined with pantyhose before being filled with mud and planted with houseplants. This will prevent the soil from being washed away.

A wonderful loofah can be crafted out of pantyhose by just cutting off the legs, filling the remainder with left-behind pieces of soap and then tying the ends. It can be placed beside the sink to wash hands regularly.

The best use of old pantyhose is perhaps to ferret out lost objects from the carpet. A leg from old pantyhose can be cut out and tied around the nozzle of a vacuum cleaner. In no time the lost object will be found sticking to the pantyhose in the nozzle!

Mothballs can be kept inside pantyhose to protect clothes in a closet. A similar variation can be done by using scent instead of mothballs.

Conclusion:

The uses of pantyhose are thus endless. Be it new or old, pantyhose is an accessory that no one can do without.

About the Author

Roberto Sedycias works as IT consultant for www.polomercantil.com.br

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The magic of pantyhose

March 12, 2010 By admin Leave a Comment

The Magic of Lingerie Confidence

Holding daily stress at bay with a smile and a bubbly bounce in your step becomes effortless when you feel fabulous in your clothes. We've all experienced the rush of stepping out in that new suit or dress. If only the perfect new outfit were a possibility for every gal each and every morning! A more achievable way to tap into your beauty confidence magic on a daily basis is to simply know that you are dressed to impress underneath your clothes!

For a dose of every-day lingerie mood-boosting mojo try a matching bra and panty! There is a style for every frame, cup and derriere. For every style there is a seemingly limitless combination of patterns, fabrics and trims. Your matching bra and panty can be as unique as you are deep down. Are you really a silky tigress? Do you just feel kittenish today? Step into that exotic bra and panty set before you moderate your inner self with a yet another less than new, oh-so-tasteful selection in outerwear. So you've had the blouse for a few seasons and the skirt is just a dull, corporate appropriate colour… So what? You've got the exquisite feel of silk and stripes against your skin all day long. File your claws and hold your tail high as you stealthily make ready to pounce on your day!

Toss your pantyhose collection! Or at least tuck it neatly in the back of your lingerie drawer. You are about to exclusively wear stockings and garters. Yes, even under slacks. Tummy bulge is a very real concern, but the switch to stockings and garters you will leave you more aware of your posture. Tuck your tummy and sit up straight. Pull your shoulders back and away from your neck. Your spine and your waistline will thank you. And for the transitional times don't forget the redeeming properties of teddies featuring control panels! The idea is to feel good and sensual in your own body. If you don't address the causes of your insecurities you will never feel significantly better than you do right now. Let your inner light shine brilliantly! And for those gals with good bodies and a tiny, stubborn belly bulge – there is nothing wrong with you! Flat abs are lovely but so is a modest goddess bulge! For those who doubt the truth of this, look to Marilyn Monroe. Need I say more?

Another fun and any-day style lingerie boost can be had by wearing anything sheer under your clothing. A sheer bra and panty or a sheer slip, chemise or mini dress worn under your work clothes can cause you to have a constant and persistent awareness of how pretty you are even if you aren't displaying it fully. Pretty ladies smile all the time and smiles attract all kinds of possibilities, don't they?

Special occasions come with special undergarments. The fundamentals such as pantyhose, slips, bras and panties, camisoles, and so on receive a Cinderella upgrade for the day. You may find yourself wearing a corset or bustier, a strapless bra, a garter and stockings, a teddy, a richly made slip or chemise… And doesn't it make you feel wonderful? Ordinary and every-day underwear have no place under formal or evening wear certainly, but how would extraordinary lingerie worn under your work clothes feel? Like a secret you can barely keep? Like a smile you can't suppress? Like floating through your day inside of your own little patch of sunshine? Furthermore, how would it effect your evening and your time spent with your lover or significant other? Feeling good in your skin can give you a powerful charge. Eight or nine hours of "battery" reserve can excite your love life physically and emotionally. And bonus! You're already wearing something that will tantalize your partner's sensibilities!

You don't need to spend a lot to feel the magic of lingerie confidence! One of the most versatile and inexpensive options outside of the basic and every-day is the bodystocking. These are hosiery garments which extend from your toes to your shoulders. Some have sleeves, some merely have straps. Just like stockings and hose, the bodystocking is available in a wide variety of patterns, colours and opacities. Most bodystockings can be had for $20 (US) or less.

If you've never tried one before because it seemed an inconvenient or impractical garment, rest assured that very few bodystockings are manufactured with a crotch. In fact, it's rather difficult to find a bodystocking which isn't crotchless for purchase. It doesn't get much easier than that!

For an extra bit of naughtiness: try your next date in a bodystocking but without the panties. It will be difficult to keep your mind off of being intimate with your partner!

The tantalizing feel of fine spun hose can encase not only your legs but your midriff, chest and arms. And how much fun is it that what appears to be a tank or long sleeve shirt to the casual onlooker is actually part of your lacy, frilly, girly lingerie arsenal? Indulge your closet exhibitionist with a touch of hose in all the wrong places!

Confidence is a kind of magic that attracts positive experiences to you. Concentrating on having more confidence is a difficult way to actually experience confidence. It's much easier to affect a change by doing things that make you feel genuinely good such as a fresh new hair cut or donning inspirational clothes or underclothes. Indulging your sensuality through sexy, fun and expressive lingerie will give you confidence which requires no concentration to maintain. You will probably stand taller, move with greater grace and fluidity and attract smiles, attention and good will without even trying. Make a promise to yourself to work some confidence magic with lingerie today! Every woman deserves to feel fabulous! Life is just too short to be down on yourself and closed off to all of the wonderful possibilities this world has to offer you. Enjoy your life right now! — In addition to her freelance projects, Wynter Stark is a copyright writer for Touch of That Lingerie. A student of both fashion and life, her approach to both is all about the journey. Source: http://www.articletrader.com

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Valentine gift

February 12, 2010 By admin Leave a Comment

U Star Novels – Top Personalised Valentines Day Gifts

Anyone can give their special someone a box of candy or some roses for Valentine's Day, but how original is that? Those who can come up with more unique ideas for Valentine's Day will not only show their partner how much they care, but will also gain more respect from that partner by knowing they took the time to think of something special.

Personalised Valentine's Day gifts are a great idea, but how do you find something like that? Here's something that might help. You can now get unique Valentine's gifts in the form of a personalised classic novel for that special someone in your life.

U Star Novels now offers you the opportunity to star as one of the characters in a number of classic novels, with your partner included in the story as well. The classic Romeo and Juliet can have you and your lover playing the starring roles in your own first edition personalised novel.

These personalised Valentine's Day gifts not only offer the opportunity for you and your partner to play the starring roles as Romeo and Juliet, but you can also include any friends or family members you want to add to play the parts of Mercutio, The Nurse, Tybalt, and Paris.

These personalised classic novels offer a great choice in your search for unique ideas for Valentine's Day, and there are other classics besides Romeo and Juliet to choose from.

When thinking of Valentine's gifts for him, you may prefer Dracula by Bram Stoker. If watching Twilight has given you a taste for vampire tales, perhaps he will play the role of Count Dracula and you can play the part of Mina Murray, or perhaps you prefer the Count's first victim, Lucy Westenra. You can also assign the parts of Van Helsing, Jonathon Harker, and Dr. John Seward to any friend or family member you choose.

As Valentine's Day gifts for her, perhaps you would prefer your own personalised novel of Alice in Wonderland, or The Wizard of Oz. Other classic novels that you could consider for personalised Valentine's Day gifts include A Christmas Carol, or perhaps experience the whirlwind romance between Mr Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet in Pride and Prejudice by playing the starring roles.

Other titles include The Hound of the Baskervilles, the most famous Sherlock Holmes tale of murder and intrigue.

Instead of giving your partner the same old boring Valentine's gift, now you can surprise them with their own personalised classic novel.
— U Star Novels is the UK's only publisher of personalised novels. Awarded Business Plan of the Year at the 2006 Start Up Awards and more recently a national finalist in the 2009 HSBC Start Up Stars, U Star Classics was launched allowing you to star in a famous story including Pride & Prejudice, Hound of the Baskervilles and Romeo & Juliet. Visit U Star Novels. Source: http://www.articletrader.com

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Male sexual disorders – causes and oral therapies

January 12, 2010 By admin Leave a Comment

Two types of erectile dysfunction are distinguished. Rare as it is, primary erectile dysfunction means that a male has never had an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse. Secondary ED, a loss of erectile ability after a normal function, normally develops slowly unless resulted from an injury or sudden medical condition. People once believed that impotence was usually triggered by psychological problems. But nowadays we are aware that conditions such as strain, depression and fear of sexual failure are at the root of only 10% – 20% of ED. It is most often caused by physical factors, for instance vascular disorders, nerve damage, penile abnormalities. Erectile dysfunction can also be an adverse reaction to certain prescriptions and drugs obtained without a prescription.
However, whatever the causes are, it is common for males who experience impotence to have feelings of guilt, anxiety and low self-esteem.There are only 3 oral drugs sanctioned by the FDA to treat erectile dysfunction: Cialis, Levitra, and Viagra. The drugs relax the walls of the penis allowing more blood to flow to the organ, so that when a man is sexually aroused, he can attain an erection.

The drugs work in a similar way. There are insignificant differences in how long and how promptly the drug takes effect. Levitra works a little longer than Viagra. They both take effect in about thirty minutes. With Levitra, the effects last for about 5 hours. With Viagra, the effects last about 4 hours. Cialis works a little quicker (within about 15 minutes), and the effects last a lot longer – up to 36 hours in some cases.
Though each drug has proven effective, none is cure-all. Besides, they can result in health problems when taken with other medicines, especially with nitrate or nitroglycerin cardiac medications, and trigger more general side effects, such as splitting headaches and – in the case of Viagra – visual changes.
Alongside oral therapies, there are other treatment methods, such as mechanical therapies and surgery for severe cases of ED. The type of treatment, consequently, is dependent on the severity of ED.

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A Spiritually Uplifting Experience

December 12, 2009 By admin Leave a Comment

How many out there have thought of going into an “adult” shop but have never done so out of embarrassment? “What if someone recognises me?” is a popular excuse or maybe you feel they are “dirty” places where perverts go to get their jollies. So what if someone recognises you. Throw it right at them before they can say anything or look at you in anyway. Say, “Yeah I was just in this sex shop here and boy do they have a good selection of butt plugs. I would have bought some only I already had this enormous vibrator and these crotchless panties.” Sex is nothing to be embarrassed about, sex is fun, and you’re supposed to have fun with it. If fun for you means body chocolate and leather chaps then you go for it, go all out for it.

As for those who feel that sex shops are dirty and the realm of perverts, there’s a whole new genre of sex shops out there catering for more sensitive, selective and aesthetically picky women. Oh yes, women. Women are taking charge of their own sexuality, this means more than women leading sexually risky lives and it means more than women taking more initiative within their sex lives as a couple. It means that they are taking control back of their sexuality completely. Sex toys allow women to take control of their own pleasure. They decide which toy, where, when and how long. They decide whether or not to include their partners if they have one. And they can decide how much to include their partners.

One advantage of sex toys that you may not think of, other than all of the obvious ones, is that they can increase communication in your relationship. They are a good way of demonstrating how you want things done, and of showing the results of having it done properly. They open up the communication lines regarding sex and once you can talk freely about sex, really what can you not talk about? Virtually nothing is taboo. Your relationship becomes more open and honest and benefits all around. And you have all the fun in the world at the same time.

Another quite popular thing at the moment, and something that a lot of women are far more comfortable with rather than actually going into a sex shop, is Pleasure-Ware Parties. Think Tupperware parties but with dildos and lubricant instead of tubs and lids. These are organised by one adventurous/curious woman who invites as many friends as possible (15 is usually a good number) and they all get together one night for a good giggle and some elucidation. The friends need not all be women, couples are more than welcome but most parties are usually women only because that’s how women feel most comfortable. It’s when they feel freest to touch and examine the products to their hearts content and also, to ask the boldest, most direct questions. When hosting a Pleasure-Ware party it is important to let people know what to expect, the party must be consensual for all concerned. A large table is needed to display all of the products. Alternatively you need a lot of putting place. There are a lot of products that need to be displayed.

Some recurring questions, usually to do with vibrators, are regarding size and design. The key recommendations here are start small and start simple and when you are used to these, move up. If you have a boyfriend/husband you may use him as a size reference. It is also recommended that you always use lubricant; it makes everything easier and more fun all round. Do not forget to clean your toys after use. This is very important. It is important because it is basic hygiene and we all love hygiene, and it is important because cleaning your toys will help them to last longer.

After all the giggling and laughing and examining and questioning and explaining have been done, there is an opportunity for everyone who is interested to place orders for their favoured items.

The world of sex is far more mainstream now than it has ever been before. It is now welcomed into the living rooms of housewives and business executives with ease and anticipation. If it can be so easily welcomed into our homes, surely it is no stretch for us to be able to walk towards it and enter sex shops with equal equanimity? Embrace the true sexual revolution. Do not be embarrassed about the leather harness or edible undies that you buy. People envy those who are sexually free. Its time you took those steps and liberated yourself.

About the Author

Sandra wrote this article for the online marketers Whet sensuality emporium one of the most refined adult shops in SA

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How To Easily Reach The G-Spot ?

November 12, 2009 By admin Leave a Comment

The G-spot, or Grafenberg spot, is certainly the most popular topic, with the penis size, on websites discussing sex issues, male and female health. This spot was named after Ernst Granfeberg, the famous German gynecologist who first described it in 1950, in his paper The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm. Grafenberg was a German born doctor (Adelebsen 1881 – New York 1957), of Jewish confession. Arrested by the Nazis in 1937, he escaped in 1940 with the help of friends of the International Society of Sexology, and emigrated to California.

Before trying to reach this spot, we must know where it is located. The g-spot is something like a female prostate located between the pubic bone and the cervix on the top side of vagina. The g-spot is a part of the urethral sponge, a tissue playing a great role during arousal : if correctly stimulated, this area can be very pleasurable, and lead to orgasm during sexual intercourse. Note that other women could also feel the urge to urinate when this spot is stimulated.

Indeed, this urethral tissue or sponge is like a cushion against the pubic bone and the vagina wall, surrounding the urethra. Mainly made of erectile tissue, filled with blood during arousal, it has a compressing effect on the urethra, preventing urination during sex. This tissue also contains the Skene’s glands, able to produce the famous female ejaculation (usually a fluid of clear color) men are so curious about. Other scientists think the g-spot is not really a physical spot, but more probably the clitoris deepest nerves passing through the urethral tissue and connecting with the spinal column.

An important point is that the fluid produced by the Skene’s glands during orgasm passes through urethra (as urine does) but must not be considered as urine or as an effect of urinary incontinence. This clear colored fluid is similar to what is produced by the prostate and that is why we can speak about female ejaculation.

The structure of this important tissue also varies during time and after the age of 30, occurring changes make the g-spot easier to reach. This is why women after 30 will be more than probably experiencing the best of their sexual life and pleasures.

But how can men reach this so mysterious spot ? In fact, 3 methods can be applied in order to reach this spot. These methods can be found in sex advices guides on the web.
1.For men having an upward curved penis, the missionary position is the best, because that kind of penis will exert greater pressure on the front wall of the vagina.
2.For men having a downward curved penis, or an uncurved penis, doggy style position is probably more suitable because of the pressure exerted against the front wall by the downward curved penis.
3.With the fingers or the tongue : you must push down on the clitoris and arce the tongue or fingers upwards. Note that fingers or tongue must be at least 1 – 3 inches inside the vagina…since the exact distance greatly varies from a person to another… Good luck.

Science has now answered lots of questions concerning this mysterious female area, but female orgasm is and remains a complex phenomenon wherein g-spot plays an important role.

— Harry Lloyd writes articles for Top Sex Guides , a site providing male sexuality advices.

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Jealousy

October 12, 2009 By admin Leave a Comment

Jealousy typically refers to the feelings, thoughts and behaviors that occur when a person believes that a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. The word jealousy comes from the French jalousie, formed from jaloux. Feelings of jealousy always appear to stem from one's sense that something about their life is not secure e.g., in danger or is uncertain. Jealousy is the eruption of attachment and it can be transcended only through awareness. As we move with awareness into the center of this phenomenon, we pass through ungrounded expectations and beliefs, projections and delusions, guilt, envy, the loss of self-esteem, and the threat to security. The core is an existential problem and it has to do with illusion and the effectively fearful nature of the ego. When we come to know and accept the nothingness at the core, jealousy and the pain of fanatical attachment cease.

Jealousy is a common experience in human relationships and it has been reported in every culture and in many forms where researchers have looked .It has been observed in infants as young as 5 to 6 months old and in adults over 65 years old. The complexity of jealousy allows people to describe it in different ways. Definitions of jealousy normally share basic themes. These shared themes indicate jealousy is a meaningful concept and it can also be distinguished from concepts such as envy. In simple terms, jealousy is a feeling of protective resentment towards one who threatens a value or relationship.

People who have experienced pathological jealousy and for whom jealousy triggers violence may advantage from professional counseling. People who experience usual jealousy have at least nine strategies for coping with jealousy. The problem-solving strategies include: improving the primary relationship, interfering with the rival relationship, self-assessment and demanding commitment. The emotion-focused strategies include: derogation of partner or rival, denial/avoidance, developing alternatives, support/catharsis, and appraisal challenge. These strategies are related to emotion regulation, cognitive change, conflict management, and ground rules for managing jealous competition. The most important thing to do about any feelings of jealousy is to first confess them, and then attempt to overcome them.

While mainstream psychology considers sexual arousal through jealousy a paraphilia (categorized as zelophilia), some authors on sexuality (Serge Kreutz, Instrumental Jealousy) have argued that jealousy in manageable dimensions can have a definite positive effect on sexual satisfaction and sexual function. Jealousy sometimes heightens passion towards partners and increases the strength of passionate sex. Jealousy varies across cultures, cultural learning can manipulate the situations that trigger jealousy and the manner in which jealousy is expressed and attitudes toward jealousy can also change within a culture over time. Jealousy is the powerful complex of emotions experienced at the loss, real or imagined, of someone or something you believe is yours, whereas envy concerns what you do not have and would like to possess Jealousy in religion examines how the scriptures and teachings of different religions deal with the topic of jealousy. Religions may be compared and contrasted on how they deal with two issues: rules and concepts of divine jealousy about the aggravation and expression of human jealousy.

— Michael Teo is an expert on the Human Psychology and Behavior.

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Lingerie Now and Then

September 12, 2009 By admin Leave a Comment

Lingerie is actually a French term that means women’s undergarments. True to its literal meaning, lingerie is an intimate clothing item that is particularly very feminine and exudes excitement, sensuality and elegance. Very much unlike the ordinary day-to-day underwear that all people wear, lingerie is meant to be femininely fashionable and meant to be an expression of a woman’s innermost feelings. With the wide range of lingerie items available in the market today, of varying styles, colors and fabrics, there will always be a sexy lingerie that would suit your own taste and preferences.

But to a modern woman, style would not be enough without comfort. Modern lingerie should not only be stylish but also a lot more functional and be made of comfortable fabrics. Blending these characteristics, modern designer lingerie collections strive to make as stylish yet functional lingerie as possible for today’s woman. There are many types of lingerie items that are available today such as panties, camisoles, slips, bras and nighties and these are already considered as clothing essentials. While most lingerie today is machine made, designer lingerie is made according to unique specifications and is mostly hand-sewn which never goes out of style. Customised lingerie is especially popular for weddings, honeymoons and anniversaries.

Knowing your lingerie size is very important when buying sexy lingerie especially when you buy lingerie online. Different types of lingerie are numbered in different sizes based on bust, cup size, waist and hip measurements. Once you know the specific lingerie size that fits you comfortably, it will be easier to order and buy lingerie online. In order to maintain the condition of your lingerie, it is very important to check out detailed product information such as washing instructions, warranty details and exchange policy so you could keep your intimate apparel in good condition for a long time.

Once considered as a simple undergarment, the modern sexy lingerie is increasingly becoming a fashion mainstay. With every shape, fabric, colour and cut, a sexy lingerie will surely add up an air of confidence and sexuality that would make you a lot more sexy and exciting. It is also best for romantic situations where building up excitement and anticipation would help make great intimate moments. Another reason for the lingerie’s popularity is the fact that today’s lingerie styles are a lot more comfortable and wearable than it used to be. From stiff and uncomfortable fabrics, sexy lingerie nowadays are made of materials that would feel wonderful on your body.

A reputable online lingerie retailer, UK-based Fuscia, takes the lingerie craze further with its new and stylish sexy designer lingerie selections with a lot more styles, colours, materials and sizes of sexy lingerie. With a few clicks on its website, www.fuscia.co.uk, you can actually check out sexy lingerie of various brands and types, all from the convenience of your own home. When you buy lingerie online, you actually do not have to make the old-fashioned trip to the neighborhood lingerie shop but all you have to do is to simply sit down in front of your computer and check out their website for the lingerie that would work to your fancy.

Fuscia Ltd has been in the online lingerie business for almost three years now. This friendly family-run company is registered in England and Wales and is reputed for its high quality service. Built upon a strong commitment to its customers, the company is known for marketing innovations that make shopping for lingerie online a lot more convenient. In fact, if customers are looking for products that Fuscia has yet to produce, the inquiring customer simply has to contact the company and in turn the company would try its best to serve every customer’s need.
— Modern designer lingerie collections strive to make as stylish yet functional lingerie as possible for today’s woman. Buy lingerie online from fuscia.co.uk. Source: http://www.articletrader.com

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What Does It Mean To Be Bisexual?

August 12, 2009 By admin Leave a Comment

Bisexuality!!! Is it just a passing phase or bisexuals really get attracted to people of both the sexes throughout their lives? Getting curious? …Want to know the actual meaning of bisexual?

The term bisexual was first used in the perspective of sexual orientation in 1914. Most of the bisexuals crave for the members of both sexes and they even get into romantic liaison and create emotional connection with them. The very idea of getting attracted to either a man or woman can make them feel incomplete. Just like homosexuality and heterosexuality, bisexuality is a natural form of sexual expression. There’s a common belief that bisexuals always seek no-strings-attached physical relationships. But, it’s not true. Emotional involvement is the thing that most of them look for. It’s not that people turn bisexuals when they fail to find a suitable partner from the opposite sex. The fact lies here that bisexual traits are innate in human beings. They are not confused creatures, rather they are well aware of their sexuality. As both men and women turn them on, the chance of finding a dream date or getting a life partner doubles up in case of a bisexual. But that certainly does not make the bisexuals promiscuous in nature. The level of promiscuity in an individual has nothing to do with his/her sexuality. It, irrespective of sexual preference, varies from person to person.

There’s nothing wrong in you if you are capable of forming sexual bond with members of both the male and female species. The height of attraction may differ, but the comfort level is always there. To a bisexual person, the importance of a person (from either gender) is much more than the lust for a particular sexual organ. Having a penchant for both guys and girls is no crime. Just experience the fun of going both the ways. It’s the matter of how you feel from inside and whether you fantasize both males and females. How many times you engage in sexual activities with whom doesn’t matter much. On the other hand, it’s again true that only fantasizing people from both genders doesn’t make you bisexual. Even if you carry out your fantasies in real, it’s totally up to you what are you labeling yourself as.

Watching a film and getting attracted to both its hero and heroine at the same time is not at all uncommon. After getting over with the confusion, once you be at ease with yourself, your dull and boring life can definitely become exciting. Once you start liking yourself as you are, others will surely follow. Meeting bisexual people has become so easy nowadays. You can find several bisexual or bi-inclusive groups at your locality. Here, you get the chance of meeting like-minded people with whom you can set up a dream date or even settle down in near future. The helplines and bisexual resource centers can also be of great assistance. One cannot possibly change his/her sexual orientation, so it’s better to accept a person as he/she is. Bisexual people cannot be stereotyped; they are as diverse as heterosexuals and homosexuals. Some of them may opt for lifelong relationships while others may prefer one-night escapades.

Being bisexual cannot debar oneself from dreaming of a family of his/her own. Having children via adoption, surrogacy measures or artificial insemination is quite common these days. With the development of one’s sexual identity, the degree of attraction that a bisexual person feels towards either of the sexes may vary. Some bisexual people are not comfortable with the term. This situation has given way to various other related terms like ‘bi-curious’, ‘not straight’, ‘omnisexual’ and ‘pansexual’ etc. But, researchers and psychologists always advise to come out with one’s true sexual identity as it has been proved time and again that the ‘coming out’ process often paves the way for a calmer and happier life.

As per researches, sexuality is largely determined at the time of birth. As a southpaw picks things up with his left hand instinctively, the passionate yearnings that a bisexual feel for both sexes come spontaneously. Neither bisexuality can be forced upon anybody, nor psychotherapy or other interventions can change sexual orientation of a person. It’s fine to get drawn towards members of both the sexes. Some bisexuals (gays, lesbians as well) prefer to call themselves ‘queer’. The term, though once used as an insulting label, is hailed with respect nowadays. Some bisexual people take long time to decipher their true sexual callings while others are quite sure of their inclinations well before adolescence. With maturity, they become capable of nurturing a satisfying and committed relationship with a person from either sex. Just listen to your heart and you will come to know about your exact nature, you don’t have to rush into any conclusion.

All types of sexual preferences, including bisexuality, are absolutely normal. Bisexuality is neither a matter of choice that can be altered, nor a disease, which can be cured. And whatever you pretend to be, you will always remain as you are. Being bisexual doesn’t make a person obsessed with sex. Persons from both the sexes may sweep him off his feet, but not each and every men and women. Just like straight people, bisexual persons select their partners on the basis of looks, intelligence, personality etc. Bisexuals are free to have male and female partners simultaneously, but they are not bound to get into multiple relationships at the same time. Most bisexual persons just wait for the right person to fall in love and the gender often becomes irrelevant in the process. Being a bisexual, you are free to live your sexual life in your own terms, provided that it doesn’t hamper the lives of others. — Jason Rase provides free gay sex chat services and amateur group sex dating online. Source: http://www.articletrader.com

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