Nurses in stockings

nurses in stockings“I am a nurse and when I started my training I wore both opaque and 20 denier tights and found them both hot to wear and uncomfortable so I started to wear stockings and have continued to do so since. The uniform in the hospital were I previously worked was white and a memo was sent out requesting nurses to wear underskirts (slips) under their dresses as their underwear could be seen. The main problem was black tights and underwear. As white was the only colour underskirt that could be worn then only white underwear could be worn so black tights or stockings were a no no.”

“New uniform code states no more thick opaque black tights to be worn with our uniform because we wear a white uniform black tights clash. We now have to wear sheer tan/light orange colour…This is good news for a lot of us as opaque tights were too hot, however a lot of the girls want to bring back the black tights.”

“I’m 51 and still nursing after many years. I’ve worn stockings and suspenders all my life and still wear them when on duty. I know several other girls that wear stockings to work. Our uniforms are nowhere near as glamorous as they used to be when I started in 1970, but wearing stockings both gives my appearance a lift (I’m still proud of my pins) and has practical value (hygiene, etc). So we are around!”

“I have been nursing for 10 years and always wear black stockings and suspenders with my uniform. I saw a posting a while back stating that English nurses are banned from wearing black hosiery. This isn’t true for all, it just depends which NHS trust you work for. All seem to have a different idea of uniform standards. Also, what about the private nursing sector?”

“Nothing will convince me that (a) there’s anything wrong with feminine dress whether it be nurses or any other professional (a lab coat in itself is not the point: it’s what’s worn beneath that I am writing about) and (b) that a smart uniform, which requires some effort in maintaining – such as ironing, etc., will not engender pride and efficiency in its wearer.

“I’m a professional – I COULD perform my work just as easily in a “T” shirt and jeans: I don’t think that my clients would care very much for it, though, nor the more senior professionals with whom I am in daily contact.

“And, in any event, what about the psychological boost that a well-dressed nurse will give her patients? I’m not writing about turning a nurse into an object of sexual fantasy, but simply the pleasure a man (or even a woman) gets from seeing a well-dressed woman. There’s more to nursing than simply being a medicine-dispenser or bed-changer.”

“I think we would all be surprised at how many women still wear stockings and suspenders as a matter of course. My girlfriend wears the above at least three days a week to work and has done for a number of years. What is more interesting is that she has told me of at least four of her friends who do the same. I have been looking at them in a somewhat different light since I found out their little ‘secret’.”

“In the 1960s I spent several years nursing. In those days the uniforms were a far cry from today’s shabby affairs and included black stockings and suspenders. The only problem was with the sheets and blankets being made of new-fangled man-made fibres, bri-nylon and the like. When we were making beds, or sometimes when we just touched them, we would often get a sharp electric shock, which we felt right on the metal clips of our suspenders!”

“I remember lying in a hospital bed recovering from an operation. I had been playfully teasing a young nurse when she decided to make the bed opposite. As she leaned over the bed I got a wonderful view of a black stocking top and about 2″ of the creamy white thigh above. Mmmm delicious! Maybe this is a therapeutic tactic? It certainly made my day and helped me on the road to rapid recovery!”

First time in stockings

Queen_size_RHT_stockings_LA lady friend and I were discussing stockings (what else?) recently and she said that she began wearing them only because her boyfriend at the time suggested it. She and the boyfriend parted years ago but she says she wears stockings about three times a week and almost always on dates.

It got me to wondering about the women reading and posting here. Dear ladies; did you begin wearing stockings because someone else suggested it or did you develop an interest yourself and then begin wearing them quite independently from anyone’s suggestion? Thank you in advance for your responses.

– I started wearing stockings when I was about16/17. Tights kept giving me thrush and I have not worn them since. I only ever wear stockings/hold-ups and it has been that way for 20 years now!

– I began wearing stockings after seeing the idea in a book that “stockings and a garterbelt are always more sexy than pantyhose”. At first I totally rejected the idea and put the book away. But in October of 2000, I began looking for ways to improve my marriage to my husband to kind of liven things up in the sex department. So I started very hesitantly at first wearing stockings with lycra in them and made the usual mistakes of trying to get what the stores offered. In the USA good quality stockings are almost impossible to get in the shopping malls.

Through this forum I discovered all I needed to know about wearing stockings, including which ones were best for me, and which manufacturer to get them from, plus where to get the best garter belts and what type were the most comfortable for me. So now I wear them mostly for myself, but also I wear them for my husband.

– I wore them as a young girl in high school but then pantyhose became the rage. I didn’t wear them again until I met my husband. While we were dating he constantly bought me clothes. He likes to dress me as though I were his own personal doll. At first I felt awkward but I also enjoyed the compliments the clothes he bought for me were attracting. Also, he was (and is) very generous and has excellent taste. So, I ended up with a wardrobe I never would have purchased for myself.

He got me back into stockings. He hates women wearing pantyhose and I think if the inventor of them isn’t already dead he would surely hunt him down. At first I wore them only because he wanted me to and he bought tons and tons of them. Even if I wanted to wear pantyhose I’d be hard pressed to find a single pair in any of our three residences.

Now I wear stockings because I genuinely like them and the effect they have on him and every other man I know. I am completely faithful to my husband but I love to tease. Sometimes my teasing distresses my husband but I tell him it’s his fault. If I were in pantyhose no one would be looking.

– Mary Quant invented pantyhose – an English clothing designer in the sixties.

– I had always thought of stockings and garterbelts, as well as girdles and corsets as part of the wonderful world of femininity. Although I never wore them as a girl or young woman, I always kept the idea of them in the back of my mind.

Not long after I met my now-husband, we went on an expedition through every major department store in Boston. Every lingerie sales person looked at me as if I had three heads! They couldn’t believe I was asking for stockings, let alone silk stockings! My boyfriend encouraged me to continue my quest – not to satisfy a need on his part, but rather because he somehow knew I would be happier in them.

To make a long story short, I finally got fed up with pantyhose, and decided to make the change. Thanks to some intrepid web surfing, I discovered this site which helped me to make the permanent shift to stockings. I wear them almost every day, much to the delight of my husband. They have given me a level of confidence and pride in my appearance than I didn’t have before. And a little harmless stocking flirting is a great side benefit!

How do I get my wife to wear RHT stockings?

RHT stockingsI love the sight of women in RHTs and yet my wife thinks they are just to cumbersome to be bothered with them. I have tried the old “they are healthier” bit with no success. Have any of you had this problem and know of ways of convincing her?

I even managed to convince my secretary to wear them and now she does all the time but my wife won’t listen! I wish there was a disaster that would turn women off tights. Like spiders and mice are able to live in there without you knowing! What do you think?

– I think its easier to convince an employee to wear stockings than to convince one’s wife to do almost anything.

You have no positional power over your wife. However, it’s this very positional power that might someday make you the subject of a sexual harassment lawsuit should your secretary ever decide she is unhappy with you or the workload you give her or the days off she gets or a special favour you did not grant or the amount of pay increase she received or… I think you get my point.

As to your wife, how long have you been married? How long have you been trying to convince her? Does your wife know your secretary and if so, does your wife know that she wears stockings? If she does know that does she know you are the person who convinced her to do so?

It’s possible that your wife, knowing that your secretary wears stockings, has decided that the only reason you want her to wear them is so she will be as attractive to you as your secretary. Your wife wants to be thought of as attractive in her own right not attractive because she reminds you of your secretary.

– Give your wife a coupon book as a gift. You make up the coupons. You can find sites on the Internet that will give you suggestions as to what the coupons should say. Use a search engine and enter “love coupons” as the search term. You should get plenty of sites.

For example, some say “I’ll do the dishes”. Some say “Good for a full body massage”. Some say “Good for a romantic dinner”. Some might say “I’ll be your personal love slave”. You get the idea? Tell her that she can use these coupons with you anytime she wants. Make sure you make her coupons good for things you know she enjoys but maybe you have been reluctant to do with her i.e. theatre, shopping, etc. Don’t make them all about sex. But make sure one of the coupons says “I’ll do anything you want. ” Make sure she knows that’s the most important coupon of all.

Then tell her that you would really enjoy having a coupon book that she makes up. That’s when you may hit pay dirt. If you make the book you give her really sensitive to the things you know she likes the chances are very good that she will reciprocate when she makes your book. Try to limit the number of coupons to 10 and put an expiration date of no more than thirty days on it.

Now, if she gives you a coupon that says “I’ll do anything you want” you will of course be ready with stockings and suspenders. But, make sure you make the entire evening very enjoyable. Buy her a nice dress. Take her to dinner. Buy her a corsage. Order a fine wine. Make it a celebration. Rent a hotel room… a good one. Let this be a very memorable event. From that time on she should associate stockings with a wonderful time and you will find it is much easier to get her to wear them Especially when you buy them as presents.

– I haven’t been married for 26 years (five for me), but here is how I got my wife to like 15 denier RHTs:

First, I simply ordered several pairs without her knowing about it, as well as a stong garter belt (with metal clips). Once we got them in the mail, I asked her to just put them on for love-making. She had no problem with that. To make it sexier for me, I would have her put on business suit and everything just so I could take everything off (but the garter and stockings). When she had her business suit on, I truthfully noted how much better the stockings made her legs look than the nylon/spandex/lycra mix in pantyhose. She looked down and noticed the same thing. The stockings are so sheer and sexy, that her legs looked so much better than when in pantyhose.

I ensured her that I couldn’t see the stocking tops when standing or sitting and told her that she should wear them to work. She agreed at that point. Before leaving for work, I told her to put an extra stocking in her purse just in case of a run (and thereby completely turning her off). Therefore, I did several things:

  1. Showed her how much better her legs looked in daily clothes of which she agreed.
  2. Convinced her that there is no way her work peers could notice that she was wearing stockings (which wouldn’t have bothered me – lol).
  3. Ensured she had a garter belt that would securely fasten her stockings, reducing the wrinkling around knees and ankles.
  4. Gave her an extra stocking just in case of runs (which she has had to turn to many times).
  5. Lastly, when she got home from work, I made love to her like never before… something she definitely values!

Hope this helps!

– Now here’s one more, give your wife freedom of choice, for me that was the clincher. Knowing it was my choice was very important to me. Everyone likes having a choice and no one likes being told what to do. When I am told what to do it instantly gets my defences up. Women want to know their husband or boyfriend loves them for who and what they are not what they wear.

Advice on wearing high heels

high-heelsI recently purchased a pair of shoes with six inch heels for my girlfriend. Although she has almost hypermobile (very flexible) joints, she says she can’t walk in them. I guess it’s a question of balance. Would six inch heels be too high, for someone just starting out?

I would like to know how the ladies in here have dealt with high heels. Have you gradually increased the heel-size or have you just practised until you felt comfortable wearing (and walking in) your shoes? Your advice will be greatly appreciated.

– The heel size depends on her foot size. My girlfriend has small feet (European size 36) and the highest heel she wears is four inches. Five inch heels look strange and she cannot walk

– If your girlfriend has never worn heels before, she’s going to need to begin with a lesser height, and practise, practise, practise.

Very high heels can throw off one’s centre of balance by thrusting the backside and breasts out, and forcing the hips to sway from side to side to compensate.

The one thing that new heel wearers (usually teen girls) have to get used to is not walking flat-footed as one does in sneakers and boots. The mantra is “heel-toe, heel-toe”.

Another part to wearing heels is becoming aware of how straight your back is. There is a natural tendency to lean forward, to compensate for the feeling of unbalance. That’s because you have to learn to trust the heels – that they will keep you from toppling over backwards.

As I said, it’s all in practice. I would suggest trying with a 2″ heel first, and wearing them on a daily basis. As your confidence grows, you can begin to wear higher heels.

I have been wearing heels for many years now, on an almost daily basis. I am most comfortable at 3 to 3.5 inches. I think even I would have to practice to be comfortable in 6 inch heels. Unless walking is not a pre-requisite. 🙂

– I will pass on a piece of advice I gained from Arizona Walk Shop (a speciality store specialising in the best footwear for men and women. They said any heel over one inch in height is not truly safe. It’s a question of balance, and you simply cannot balance in shoes that are over one inch in height.

Definitely start your girlfriend out in shoes one or two inches at most. I take a size 6.5 and I find I cannot wear anything over 2.5″ without having my foot sliding into the toes of my shoes. The Arizona Walk Shop also said that unless the heeled shoe has a strap across the front there is a danger of falling and breaking an ankle.

– There are three of us working in our shoe shop and we wear six-inch stiletto heels all day with little discomfort. However, the crucial difference is that they have a one inch platform. The platform cushions the foot whilst still giving the impression of a very high heel from behind.

I do have a couple of pairs of six inch stilettos without a platform (made by the London based company Leatherworks) and find the difference dramatic. The extra height tilts you forward making it difficult to walk and with no platform every little bit of gravel is felt through the balls of your feet. I did wear them clubbing a few times but now they just sit on a shelf looking pretty.

A good friend of mine always says that six inch heels are for getting from the living room to the bedroom only. I agree – if you’re planning on going any further you’re very optimistic. In my opinion the six inch heel is just that little bit too high for practical use.

Wow, a six inch heel is a tough act to follow. My wife has two pairs of five inch ankle strap sandals that she likes to wear. These are strictly from the car to the restaurant sandals. Or from the restaurant seat to the ladies room. These shoes are eye catchers that are always worn with RH&T or full fashion seamed stockings.

She can walk okay in them but not for a long time. Most of her wear-all-the-time sandals are three-inch (most comfortable) and the four-inch (almost good for all day) She has no six inchers. I think if she did they would be reserved for at home and by no means going up and down the stairs. Please be very care full. Some ladies can wear these tall shoes and some can’t. My wife is a size five and a half wide and can do the five inch but she would not or could not wear them out on the town. The six inch spikes are nice for those who can tolerate them. Should they be overly uncomfortable or worse yet appear unsafe then drop down a bit. Better a lower heel than a broken bone. Have a nice day! Oh, if she wears them it will be a good idea to be at her side just in case.

– High heels are a choice, just like most fashion. I choose to wear them daily. I started wearing heels on a daily basis about 10 years ago at the age of 35. I had worn heels for special occasions before but it had been years since I wore stilettos. I started with three inch heels and gradually worked up to my daily four inch heel and higher on week-ends and outings. Katie is very right about the platform except I wear a two inch platform with my six inch heels . It is much easier to wear those than the four inch flat soled heels I wear to work. If it didn’t cause such a stir, I would wear the platforms to work. Ten years later, can I honestly say my feet were better off without them? Probably, but for drastic effect, nothing beats a great pair of legs in full fashion nylons and high heels. I wouldn’t have it any other way!

The stockings versus tights war: battle two

Sexy TightsI have yet to see a pair of pantyhose that can match the sheen, lustre, and overall raw sexiness of a pair of well crafted stockings. The basis of nylon’s attractiveness is based on multisensory appeal…I feel that visually and tactilely pantyhose lack the impact that stockings possess. Even the sheerest of pantyhose lack the denier and gauge that gives stockings their superior appeal.

There is nothing more sensual than a beautiful woman adorned in nylon stockings and a garter belt. Being a Scot residing in Australia, I would compare the introduction of pantyhose to no longer being able to purchase square sausage. Both these events can easily be referred to as ‘tragedies’. I am 53-years old and feel privileged to have spent my courting years around such sexily presented girls in the sixties and early seventies.

You must understand the absolute pleasure of seeing a peek of stocking top revealed from beneath a woman’s skirt. The scenarios are plenty and everyday – getting in and out of cars, bending over a desk in the office, crossing legs on a train, sat on a barstool in the pub. Most men would not only notice a woman in a short skirt with sheer hosiery, but would look to see if they were stockings. The tell tale bumps further up the skirt is often another good indicator. These are the things that make the world go round, that make life worth living!

I have a partner of a number of years who finds the wearing of pantyhose preferable to that of stockings. This is for a number of reasons: she feels that they are more flattering, keeping unsightly bulges safely hidden away. She will occasionally wear stockings for me because that is what excites me most. However as for myself I find them the biggest turn off imaginable. There is absolutely no eroticism associated with pantyhose, absolutely no glamour associated with them. I cannot think of anything so tedious as a woman in bra, pants and pantyhose.

Never mind condoms, the pill, etc. the biggest contraceptive just has to be the pantyhose.

I remember the frustration I experienced as a young man, running my hand up the leg of the girl of the moment only to find a nylon gusset at the top and the disappointment I felt at the time. It is a fact that I would have experienced sexual intercourse more often had it not been for girl’s pantyhose.

Stockings (and for me in particular lace holdups) are in every way superior than those articles of the devil, the pantyhose. I have seen women coming down stairs on the London underground showing the lace top of her stockings and it has added that extra boost throughout the day. Pantyhose would not do this. Just the thought of running my hand up the leg of a ladies leg to find the top of stockings would increase my heart rate. Pantyhose would not do this. I have seen women remove pantyhose and remove stockings and every time I find stockings far more sensuous.

Stockings are the sexiest attire ever invented, the glimpse, feel and removing of which are the biggest guaranteed turn-ons. Tights are quite possibly the least sexiest thing ever invented; passion killing, fun stopping, turn offs.

I have never met a man that favoured pantyhose over nylon stockings (hold up or suspender-garterbelt type) in today’s society from the USA to Europe and all the islands. Stockings are making a greater comeback than the euro did for the dollar.

Since the invention of silk stockings men and woman have been intrigued with their allure. This pace slowed down on the introduction of pantyhose. I believe it was a quick fix for the fast paced business woman until lingerie from decades ago became very vogue. We now have a stocking frenzy…

The stockings versus tights war: battle one

StockingsWe are talking sex-appeal, right? In that case there is no doubt that seeing a beautiful ‘stockinged’ leg can be very sexy. The more leg the sexier. And pantyhose may facilitate such a sight. But that is where the matter ends, in more senses than one.

Surely no-one can successfully argue that the top of a pair of pantyhose has any sort of appeal, visual or sexual? The construction of this part of the garment is necessarily workaday and utilitarian in the extreme. There neither is nor can be any aesthetic attached to it.

Stockings, on the other hand, whether attached to suspenders or stay-ups, have infinite charm and variety from toe to top. They release the imagination rather than confine it. If, for a moment, one imagines a situation of intimacy, then the sight of a stocking top coming into view not only sets the heart and pulse racing, but indicates that that there will be no ungainly interference with greater intimacy.

As I see it the stocking is far preferable to tights for a number of reasons. Firstly, we have the effect of tights of imposing a barrier, they repel. Stockings on the other hand pose no barrier and invite. Secondly, the contrast between the flesh of the thigh and the stocking is alluring, the uniformity of the leg in tights is neither attractive nor unattractive it is neutral and therefore by definition bland suggesting that the wearer may be also. Finally, in the throes of passion, in those precious moments before consummation of a love act, the removal of stockings (if required) can be erotic, the removal of tights is closer to comedic performance.

As a commonly discussed subject amongst my friends (we are all well adjusted professional men in our twenties), we all love to see our wives/girlfriends in stockings. It is difficult to explain why but they have an attraction, an allure and this all makes them incredibly sexy.

I managed an M&S store and in all my time there, most men bought stockings for their partners or hold ups, particularly around Valentines day. A purchase of tights was very uncommon! Men who prefer tights are in the minority and are missing out and are frankly worrying individuals!

There is ABSOLUTELY no comparison. A beautiful woman in thigh high stockings is absolutely the most erotic sight one can view, while one in pantyhose (tights) may remain beautiful they don’t have the erotic equality what-so-ever.

To begin with, aesthetics: an otherwise-nude female in stockings and (hopefully) heels, is a walking billboard for ‘I’m naked, I’m available… and I want to look my best for you.’ Her femininity is there and available. On the other hand, a woman wearing pantyhose – whether with heels or not – is featuring a center of attention that looks a great deal like Bill the Cat thrown with great force against a screen door.

If you line up nine gorgeous women wearing pantyhose and one that was average in looks wearing stockings, told them all to sit in a chair and cross their legs, let their skirts ride high so you can just see the stocking tops on the one wearing stockings, then led me into the room and told me to pick one… guess which one I would pick?

I just asked the three girls I live with and we are all in total agreement. None of us like pantyhose and for many reasons, one being that it’s very unhealthy and another because they are ugly and irritating under a dress or skirt. All of us have worn pantyhose at one time or another and all of us have vowed to never do it again. Stockings and suspender belts are where it’s at, both for overall erotic appeal and for comfort of wear.

Men know the truth. If you can catch a woman with stockings or thigh highs on, look to see how many men are there, trying to steal a glance! This does not occur with nearly the same frequency when women are wearing tights (pantyhose).

Take two photos of the same model in the same classy environment, one wearing nothing but black pantyhose the other wearing nothing but black stockings and garters, then ask ten regular guys which photo they prefer and… I WIN… Stocking, Stocking, Stocking!

What is sexy about the top part of pantyhose? To be honest I find it a turn off to see a woman put on (or off) a pantyhose. If she does the same with a pair of stockings I find it very much a turn on and it adds a very nice accent to her femininity.

French heels

French heels stockingsI have been wearing fully fashioned seamed stockings for a number of years. I seem to recall in Europe a term called “French heel” being used. Is this the same as FF or is it a separate term used to describe the triangle made at the back of the heel?

– Fully fashioned refers to the way the stocking is made – one piece of nylon done in such a way to mimic the contours of the leg, and then sewn closed at the back, creating the seam. Years ago, the foot part and the seam were the same colour or so as the rest of the stocking. At some point someone hit on the idea of doing the seam and foot in black or other contrasting colours as a way to showcase the foot when slingbacks and ankle straps became popular.

The heel style has a number of different names, I guess depending on which side of the pond you’re on.

I have been under the impression that a squared heel was a Cuban heel, and the pointed heel was a French heel. However, I know that Secrets in Lace calls them something else entirely.

– I’m pretty sure that in Europe the French heel referred to the triangular shape that ended in a square at the top. I could be wrong. It certainly explains how I have always received blank looks in America when asking for a pair of stockings with a French heel.

– As far as I know (and I’ve known fully fashioned hosiery for years) a French heel finishes with a point. A Cuban heel finishes with a squared top. These will vary in length and width but as far as I know they are still recognised as Cuban heels. There is also a Havana heel which is much like a Cuban heel. Then there is the Manhattan Heel. It’s a fancy edition with a triangle top and a thin outline around the heel and foot. Years ago there were many really fancy heel designs knitted into the fully fashioned stockings. Once in a while you can find a pair at E-Bay. These were works of art!

French heels are simply point heels trying to be posh!

Advice on washing stockings

Stockings in LondonI have an interesting arrangement with my girlfriend. She has agreed to wear stockings (sometimes) if I wash them for her. I bought a hosiery washing bag from a lingerie shop, but wasn’t sure if it’s okay to wash them in the washing machine or if I should do it by hand. Any advice? And can I dry them in a dryer or do they need to be hung up to dry?

Any assistance is really appreciated… I have quite a few pairs of stockings and hold-ups to wash for her. Also for the hold-ups (that have the rubbery band on the inside), are they okay to wash in the washing machine or is it better for hand-washing? And how would I use the hosiery washing bag, do I just put the stockings inside and then throw the whole thing into the washing machine? Do I have to wash these in the machine by themselves or do I just wash them with other clothes (is there a specific cycle to use)?

  • I’d say wash them by hand, as they are far too delicate to put in the washing machine even in a lingerie bag. I use Delicare hand wash on my stockings and I wear FF’s. I also use it on my underwire bras and garter belt. Get a little hanging drying rack with little clips on it if you can find one, they are terrific for drying stockings. I hope this helps.
  • The only hosiery which is washing machine friendly is 70 denier tights. Hopefully you won’t encounter any of those.
  • I always wash my stockings and hold-ups by hand in mild detergent. It is very important not to use conditioner on the hold-ups as it will harm the bands. Just hang them by the toes on the washing line to dry.

How to stop garter belts falling down

Garter BeltI read the article on suspender/garter belts and how to avoid stockings from coming down during the day. However simply by wearing longer stockings does not necessarily cure this problem. I have a narrow elastic belt with 4 garters that clip at the back (and I clip them VERY tightly) . It is the belt itself that works itself down during the course of the day. Even if my stockings reach the top of the thighs, they will still be a couple of inches lower later in the day. Any other solutions?

– Well, it could be that you have the tension pulled so tightly on the garters as to begin the process of having the belt begin to pull. I have learned that garters don’t need to be pulled all that tight, in order for the stockings to stay up. This is opposed to an open bottom girdle, which needs the tension to keep the girdle from creeping up…

I also found that when I was wearing one of those flimsy lacy garterbelts the pull of the stockings was too much for them. Since I have switched to a pull-on style belt made of Lycra and cotton, no more problem.

And one mention about the stockings themselves: I wear the old-style RHTs with virtually no give. They still tend to ride down a little bit over the course of the day. When I am visiting the rest room I give them a little smoothing to pull and excess which may have made it’s way down to my shoe. (This is one reason why I undo my stockings when I am answering the call. Perfect time to take care of this! )

– The top of the belt i.e. the body, should be non-stretch and preferably more cotton then synthetics. It should be sitting comfortably over the hip and once in place, there should be no real need to adjust it. The straps have to be long enough to reach to wherever you find it comfortable to attach the stockings.

I normally take a little extra care when putting on the stockings in order to ensure that everything lines up, the attachments feel correct and that nothing moves or pulls around.

Remember it is the straps that hold the stockings in position, and they do not necessarily have to apply huge amounts of upward pull.

If this happens then it means that the stockings are too short, and more then likely will be uncomfortable and will require constant tugging and pulling.

– You have too much tension on the suspenders. There should be some slack so they keep up when you stand and the stockings then won’t pull the belt down when you bend or sit down. Even if you have a flimsy narrow elastic belt, this should work. If you are at work, the next time you are on the toilet, take time to adjust the suspenders while you are sitting – you will be able to feel the tension at the back. Make sure you wear the belt above your waist. Having said that, stockings WILL come down somewhat during the day so adjust them in private moments.

– The best solution is a wide, pull on garterbelt with the rear garters well to the back.

They are very comfortable, stay in place, and garter the stockings tautly. Unlike some other responses, I prefer good tension on my garters. I love the gentle leg massage that comes with every step when the stockings are fastened tautly.

– I have worn open bottomed girdles on and off for many years. They always stay up and certainly don’t work their way down plus they do a wonderful job of shaping. If you haven’t had experience of them before, here are some things to look out for which may cause you problems:

  1. If your skirt is tight-ish, open bottomed girdles produce an unsightly girdle line. Always wear loose skirts.
  2. The only way to go to the bathroom is to roll the girdle down. If you are even slightly sweaty, this is quite difficult. Many women decide not to wear underwear for this reason.
  3. All girdles make you very hot especially when the weather is warm. In the summer I really only wear them to formal occasions indoors where there is air conditioning.

Is sex better when wearing stockings?

art-lingerie_Black_Lingerie_Black_Stockings_brunette_Malena_Morgan_meaty_met-nude_solo_stairs_stockings_10Question for all you ladies out there! Do you agree that you that you get better sex when wearing stockings? In my humble opinion the answer is, most definitely yes! For one I always prefer not to remove my underwear for sex as I believe that the resulting effect is almost always better. Once you let your encounter know that you are wearing stockings – maybe by flashing a stocking top or deliberately allowing them to feel your suspenders through your skirt; the resulting sex is almost always great. Apart from the occasional ‘ quick to misfire’! But even when this happens it’s usually a sure sign that it is still the best way to turn a partner on!

What do you think?

By the way, and before you all ask, I’m bisexual and have been since I was 16 and have plenty experience in the power of stockings and suspenders over both sexes! If you’re female and that way inclined, they do it for you as well!

– Even though I’m male and straight I’m going to reply. I couldn’t agree with you more regarding stockings in bed. Mmmmwwwwaaaah

– Have to completely agree with you, a flash of stocking top or the knowledge you are wearing stockings always makes it good. I’m bisexual from the west coast of Scotland and always like my partner and myself to wear stockings during sex, its always good.

– Do any of you women who like to wear stockings during sex, also like to sleep in them for the rest of the night once you’re done?

– I’m just beginning to get my husband to allow me to wear stockings during sex but the first time I did have sex with my stockings on, my husband seemed to love it and I found rubbing my garters against his private parts really seemed to turn him on judging by his reaction and mine.

– Having sex with a lady wearing her stockings is mind boggling. Great. I know, been there, done that! Sliding down those upturned silky legs is a sensation like nothing else in this world. What great memories all of that great sex was. This was before marriage. Now, my wife has to pull her pantyhose off. She can not seem to get the message. No more damned panty hose. Those suspender-held real silk stockings were the greatest. Gone – but not forgotten. Woe is me!

– My girlfriend is comfortable having sex with her stockings on, but always takes them off before falling asleep. When we are doing it, she usually keeps her high-heels on too, and she often slides the shaft of my penis between her stockinged thighs. I usually come instantly. Who wouldn’t?

– I virtually do not have sex with my woman if she fails to don a sheer, sleek, smooth, taut, glistening, sexy, accentuating, sensual and inviting pair of gartered nylon stockings… and I ask that she not remove them before, during or after we engage. Indeed, my woman may wear gartered nylon stockings all of the time. She need not trouble herself with ever removing them. We all know that they must be removed at some time but there certainly is no hurry!

What more can I say?